Showing posts with label Privacy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Privacy. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 25, 2017

Sara Raccoon and the Secret Place by Margaret Burdick


This darling little book was on the shelf in my library. I was instantly smitten. Raccoons, secret places, bright colors, woods... yes please! 

(By the way, just for full disclosure, you are going to see a lot of flowers in my upcoming pictures. I have very little imagination about photo styling, so I make up for it by putting flowers in the picture. Flowers make everything better, right?!?)


Look at all those little animals in yellow rain slickers! I adore yellow rain slickers. And personified woodland animals.


It is a rainy day in Sara Raccoon's world. She is quietly sewing a dress for her sock monkey, Mimi, while her little brother and sister are wrecking havoc on the bottom bunk. 

This. So real. I remember sharing bunk beds with older siblings who never thought my shenanigans were as funny as I did. As well as having two younger brothers who intruded into everything my ten year old self thought was important and sacred. 


Not content with wrecking havoc below, the twins have to go to the top bunk to get Sara's attention. 

Their presence is not appreciated. 

But aren't these pictures adorable? All those primary colors!


Mother Raccoon's solution is to kick them all outside now that it has stopped raining. Sara asks to stay inside, but.... no go.

"Not now dear," said her mother. "i'd like to be alone for a little while. I need some peace and quiet by myself this afternoon. Why don't you play with Bobby Otter?"

I feel this mama's pain. And I like her ability to kick her kids out when they are bothering her. But poor Sara Raccoon who just wanted to sew quietly.


Alright, lets all look at the adorable store for a bit. Candy in jars, Lilies-of-the-valley in bunches on the windowsill, Robins perched on canned acorns or something, candycanes AND Easter baskets at the same time....

Pure delight!


Sara can't find ole Bobby anywhere, so she goes out to look for him. But... whoopsie! Rain again.


She runs to the first dry spot she could find, a hollow tree trunk.

While she watched the rain, she decided it made a lovely little secret place for her. A place where NO ONE else could bother her. Her very, very own! 

As a kid with seven siblings, I delight right along with her. A place of your own is so important. 


"The next week, Sara was very busy. She gathered clover, honeysuckle, and wild strawberries to trade at Mr. Badger's for scraps of calico." 

How many sweet little things can be crammed into one sentence?! Can you imagine armfuls of honeysuckle, clover, and wild strawberries? 
Swoon. 


When everything is ready and just so, she heads back to her secret place to put it all together. If she was anything like I was, she probably has such grandiose schemes for this secret place that it had taken on the proportions of a royal palace. It was freedom, independence, and solitude. And it was hers.

Except...there is someone sticking their big fat nose into her secret place!


The outrage! The shattering of the dream!

Sara Raccoon does not handle the situation well. Even though the intruder is Bobby Otter, her best friend. 

Words are exchanged. 

Sara's crushing disappointment comes out at Bobby and blames him for the ruination of all her plans.

He scuttles off with a few choice words of his own. 


Despite the calico she worked hard for and the setting up of her secret place, it is all ruined by the bad feeling she has about how she treated Bobby. 

And it starts to rain again. Life is hard. 

I so, so, so feel her. I remember fights with friends about similarly irrational disappointments and the bitter feeling you are left with that colors everything you do after until you make things right again. The arguing within yourself about how it wasn't entirely your fault, they shouldn't have.....!! but knowing all the while that it really is all your fault. 


After all the rain that has been happening, there is a teensy flood and Sara can't get home from the secret place. Who rescues her? Bobby of course. 


As good friends do, they sort it out with a good cry and talk. 

Bobby consoles--"Your place will be dry again soon. Meanwhile, we can go to my secret place."

Whaaaat? Bobby Otter has his own secret place. Oh bliss! They can share secret places! Friends are the very best.


Bobby's secret place is pretty nifty. 


And so was Sara's when it dried out again. 

I want to go visit their secret places. I sort of want a secret place of my own.... 

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This would do.

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Or this.

(Have to say I would be a little bit nervous about the strength of that rope for the first time or two...)

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Maybe a land based one is better! 

Love!

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Somehow grown up secret places are so much more complex than a hollow tree...

But aren't they lovely?!  Here is a whole page of these delightful spots!

I'll take them all. 

Thursday, July 14, 2016

A Little House of Your Own by Beatrice Schenk de Regniers & Illus by Irene Haas


I picked this up at the book sale simply because it is shaped differently. I like tall skinny books. But once I read this, oh! how much I love it! This book is all about having a space all of your own and people respecting that. Being slightly introverted, it is really easy for me to get behind an idea like that. It is also an adorable and sweet book. And even for kids who aren't introverted, this addresses an important concept--that you should be allowed privacy and other people should respect that and let you have privacy. 

And what little kid doesn't love having their own little space where they get to make the rules? 

(The pictures are less than stellar, but time is short this morning, so can't go back and retake.)


The drawings are lovely too. I love pen and ink drawings. As I think I have mentioned. 


Written in secret meadows at Tuilauvent.

Happiness!


Everyone needs a little house of their own.


And not just the house you live in with your parents. But your very own, tiny house.


The author favored under the dining room table and the tablecloth.


Then she had a tree house.

Nobody could see me 
in my secret house in the tree.
When people looked up in the tree
they couldn't see me at all.

All they could see were
 he many many leaves. But
I could look down and see
everyone if I wanted to.

That sense of power and control over a situation or space are important for kids to experience. Not all the time, but sometimes. 


Observing the world from her tree house.


And you can invite friends into your little house. But they can only come when  you say they can. 


Her friend Martha had an actual little house! With a fireplace and two chairs.

Lucky duck Martha.


But a little house doesn't have to be fancy. 


Just as long as you have one.


Love, love all these pictures of kids in their little houses.




Of course you don't always
want to be in your own
little house by yourself.

Not even most of the time. 

Just sometimes.

Most of the time
it is fun to be with
other children. 


I love the author reinforcing the idea that you shouldn't be on your own all the time. That isn't the point of little houses. 

Kids are awesome to be with!


Grown ups too!


The elementary librarian of me just adores this picture.


But sometimes you just
want everyone to leave you
alone.

No children.
No grownups.

You just don't want anyone
to bother you.

Then it is a good thing 
to have a little house
of your own.


Various forms of little houses.


Parents and grown ups need their own little houses too. 


A little house in your father's arms.

Oh the sweetness!!!


Or your mother's arms!

The safest, snuggest house of all.


And at the end of the book, we are reminded to respect other people's quiet houses. 

Give other people their space. 

Such an awesome book!

Have a lovely Thursday!